Alright, so here's the thing:

People just say random things and never really learn anything.

Why dont we ask awesome questions?

How about this--> What do you do for fun?

                        What is your favorite music?
                        What do you aspire to be?

Just like that ^ you can make awesome friends

Ta-Da, just like magic

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(talking about chats, mostly, but this applies in real life as well)